Easter: The Aftermath

Easter is over.  The chocolate bunnies are eaten.  The leftovers from Easter dinner are gone.  The new outfits have been dry cleaned and tucked away in the closet.  It's back to business as usual.  But if we celebrate the resurrection then go back to status quo then we've missed the point.   Easter is a new beginning.  For the Jewish people Passover was a significant time.  While the Israelites were enslaved in Egypt the last plague was the Passover.  Everyone who Read more

Passions Need People

Last time we looked at how Nehemiah's passion led him to complete the tremendous undertaking of rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem in 52 days, but he didn't do it alone.....   How often have you had an idea, a vision, a passion you wanted to pursue, but it never went beyond an idea in your head because you had no idea how you would make it happen?  Yeah, its sounded like a good idea, but that thought of trying to accomplish Read more

The Power of Passion

Often when we hear the word passion, we think of it in the context of love and romance.  Most people can relate to that feeling of being in love.  You fall for that special someone and they become your obsession.  That special person is all you think about.  You'd do almost anything for them.   You can also get passionate about a goal. Something you feel driven to accomplish.  Something that you're willing to put your all into, make sacrifices for.  Read more

Spring Break the Hunger....A Child's Spark

Last time, I asked for your help in raising money for my church’s current initiative: buy 300 Food Packets to send home with kids over spring break.  Essentially, the food pack is enough stuff for the kids to make themselves a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday.   So we’re sitting in church last Sunday, listening to the man explain the initiative and my son (whose 9) leans over to me and says “Mom, that’s all they get?    They should Read more

Easter: The Aftermath

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Easter is over.  The chocolate bunnies are eaten.  The leftovers from Easter dinner are gone.  The new outfits have been dry cleaned and tucked away in the closet.  It’s back to business as usual.  But if we celebrate the resurrection then go back to status quo then we’ve missed the point.

 

Easter is a new beginning.  For the Jewish people Passover was a significant time.  While the Israelites were enslaved in Egypt the last plague was the Passover.  Everyone who put blood on their door post was passed over.  Those homes that did not have the blood, the first born of the house was killed.  This was the final straw and the pharaoh finally allowed them to leave.

 

For Christians Easter represents the birth of Christianity. If Jesus had just lived a long healthy life and died of natural causes would that be significant?  Would the story be as powerful? Even if he still did the same stuff would it be as “great”?  There was something about demonstrating the power over death that sparked a new beginning.  Christianity went from being a cult to spreading across the land.

 

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Even for the pagan traditions that some Easter practices are founded, the holiday was to celebrate spring and fertility (hence the bunny rabbit).  Saying goodbye that that which is dead and cold, welcoming new life and new season.
Easter is about turning the corner….a new beginning…making a fresh start….lighting a fire…the birth of something BIG.  It’s great to celebrate the holiday with whatever traditions and ceremonies you choose.  But what comes after the celebrations?

Passions Need People

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Last time we looked at how Nehemiah’s passion led him to complete the tremendous undertaking of rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem in 52 days, but he didn’t do it alone…..

 

How often have you had an idea, a vision, a passion you wanted to pursue, but it never went beyond an idea in your head because you had no idea how you would make it happen?  Yeah, its sounded like a good idea, but that thought of trying to accomplish it was overwhelming.  The good news is that if your passion is “big” enough that you could accomplish it on by yourself…then it probably isn’t big enough at all.  In order to make big things happen, you need people.  You need others to see your vision and get motivated by your passion.  Inspiring others is not as difficult as you think.  If you are passionate about your vision, people will follow you.

 

There’s a famous quote that says “if you light yourself on fire with passion people will come from miles to watch you burn.”  So how do you go about lighting ignite passionyourself on fire?  Easy

  1. Define your mission clearly.  Put into words exactly what you are passionate about and what you want to accomplish.
  2. Seek confirmation.  Through prayer and seeking counsel of others look for confirmation that this is what you should be doing.  Accepting that there is no such things as coincidences see what messages are being left for your confirming or redirecting your mission.
  3. Make plans.  One of the reasons Nehemiah’s mission was a success was because he planned for it.  When the king asked him “How long will your journey take, and when will you get back?” (Nehemiah 2:6) he had an answer.  When people see you have plans it will help bolster their belief in you.

 

Last time I asked what were you passionate about?  Today, I wonder, what are you going to do about it?

The Power of Passion

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Often when we hear the word passion, we think of it in the context of love and romance.  Most people can relate to that feeling of being in love.  You fall for that special someone and they become your obsession.  That special person is all you think about.  You’d do almost anything for them.

 

You can also get passionate about a goal. Something you feel driven to accomplish.  Something that you’re willing to put your all into, make sacrifices for.  A passion can be selfish…I want to lose weight, I want to make a lot of money, I want a bigger house, I want that promotion, and so on.  A passion can also be bigger than you…help the homeless, stop human trafficking, or feed hungry kids.

 

Nehemiah’s story is an example of someone who developed a passion for something bigger.  Nehemiah was a cup bearer for the king.  His job was to taste the king’snehemiahs wall wine; this would be a pretty cool job as long as no one was trying to kill the king.  One day he learned about the sad state of his hometown of Jerusalem.  The city had been destroyed and the walls were torn down.  This broke Nehemiah’s heart; he took a chance and asked the king of he could leave to go rebuild the wall.

 

He left his cushy job, traveled 1000 miles (by foot), rallied support, and in 52 days rebuilt the wall.  Nehemiah made a decision to make a change…to do something different.  From that spark of passion he was able to accomplish something that many would have called impossible.

 

What are you passionate about?

Is America Losing Its Religion (part 3)?

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This whole discussion about the Religious Unaffiliated resonates with me because I can relate to having a sense of spirituality, longing for a connection to a higher power, yet feeling constricted by the confines of the “typical” church and turned off by the behavior of my fellow Christians.  If our relationship with Jesus is supposed to be a personal relationship, why do we need the church to tell us what is right and wrong?  If the New Testament signaled the end of strict adherence to the law why are many religious denominations so quick and eager to return to the shackles of the law?  And if the message of Jesus was all about love why is there so much hate and intolerance amongst those who call themselves “religious”?

 

There is a fine line between spirituality and religion.  While we might dislike, even fear, organized religion it does serve its purpose in our society.  Many of the social services provided in our society are done through the churches of various religions and denominations.  Churches often provide an extended family and sense of community that help many people handle life struggles.  Church also gives you an opportunity to find others who share your belief and gives you a sense of freedom to express yourself (the tough part here though is searching until you find that perfect church….it’s out there).

 

new religionI don’t think America is losing its religion…I think America is redefining religion.  It’s a good thing that the younger generation is more accepting of differences, more tolerate of people, more willing to help people in need and more in-tune with their personal spirituality.  Being “more spiritual” doesn’t have to translate into abandoning the church.  My prediction is over the next decade or so we’ll see the church change.  You already see more churches offering a contemporary service in addition to a traditional service.  Dress codes have been relaxed and coffee is allowed in the sanctuary.  In home and start-up churches continue to be a part of America’s landscape.

Change is a good thing and if you think about it, isn’t that what Jesus did?  He came and turned the religious world upside down.  It’s time we do the same.

Brownie Confessions

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They say confession is good for the soul.  We’ll see; here goes…..

Last week I did a very bad thing.  I made a homemade pan of brownies.  No box mix.  I’m talking cocoa, eggs, oil, flour, sugar, the whole nine yards.  Then, over the course of 2 days, I ate the whole pan….by myself.  My hubby was out of town (duh, why would I make brownies that I would have to share) and I hid them from my son so he wouldn’t ask for any.

There’s a laundry list of “sins” that this little incidence falls under:brownies 2

  1. Gluttony
  2. Deceit
  3. Greed
  4. Damaging my temple

…and I’m sure there are few others I can’t think of.

So I share my Brownie Indulgence to highlight 3 points:

  1. We’re all sinners.  There are rapists and murderers and child-molesters in the world.  There those who are sexually promiscuous, those who over indulge in alcohol and drugs, those who lie, those who steal from other people, and those who cheat on their spouses.  Then there are those who overindulge in “socially acceptable” vices (like brownies), those who tell white lies (“no officer I didn’t realize how fast I was going”) and those who have lustful eyes.  And all of the above are sinners. Contrary to popular belief, there are no big sins and little sins.  Romans 3:23 says “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.”
  2. Do not underestimate the importance of accountability.  A few days ago, I wrote a post about accountability.  When it comes to my physical fitness goals, my personal trainer is a great source of accountability.  We’ve been on a hiatus for a couple of months due to my afterschool commitments.  Obviously if I were keeping my food journal and showing it to him every week I would have thought twice about including “whole pan of brownies” on the list.  In fact, most likely I would not have even made them in the first place (and by the way there is no need to mention this little brownie thing to Josh).  Let accountability help you with your goals.  Find someone to help you stay accountable.  Share your goals and the things you struggle with.  Give that person permission to call you out when you’re doing stupid stuff.
  3. You can draw your line in the sand at any time.  So obviously eating a whole pan of brownies is not in line with my physical fitness goals.  In fact eating a whole pan of brownies is counterproductive to my goals.  But that was my yesterday, it does not have to be my tomorrow.  It’s like that with most things in our lives.  You may have a vice or a sin or a problem that is controlling you today, but you also have some power to draw a line in the sand and say “from here on out, no longer.”  The choice is yours.

Express Line to Hell

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I am an Eddie Murphy fan.  I’m not talking about the modern day, family friendly, Dr. Doolittle, Daddy Day Care Eddie Murphy.  I’m talking about old school Eddie Murphy.  The Raw, Delirious, Boomerang, Harlem Nights Eddie Murphy.  Yes, by the grace of God, Eddie and I both have come a long way.  But admit it….back in the day….Eddie was hilarious.

One of my favorite jokes is Eddie talking about the express line to hell:

“And they shot the Pope. I mean, who would shoot the Pope? What’s your intention in shooting the Pope unless you’re saying, ‘Look, I want to go to hell and I don’t want to stand in line?’ I mean, whoever shot the Pope, they’ll say to him, ‘You shot the Pope? Get in the express line….’”

As funny as that joke is, it does cause you to wonder….is there an express line to hell?  Is there a sin that we could do that is soooo terrible, that God would never forgive us and we’re condemned forever?  If you believe the Bible, once you’re saved, the answer is “No.”  Of course that doesn’t mean that you should go out and live like a wild heathen…there will be judgment even amongst the saved.   But once you accept Jesus, you’re in.  There’s no sin that will get you kicked out of Heaven and no “good works” to be done to get you in Heaven.  You just need to accept Jesus’ gift.

It is good of us Christians to remember this in our own personal lives.  It is better for us Christians to remember this when we’re dealing with others.  If God can look at you and say “I love you…I accept you…and there is nothing you can do that will take that love away”  why can’t we look at others and say the same?

 I am absolutely sure that not even death or life can separate us from God’s love. Not even angels or demons, the present or the future, or any powers can do that. Not even the highest places or the lowest, or anything else in all creation can do that. Nothing at all can ever separate us from God’s love because of what Christ Jesus our Lord has done.

Romans 8: 38 – 39

On Giving Account

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I have the most awesome personal trainer: Josh Woods.  He is encouraging, always pushing me to work harder, tolerates my whining and random text messages, helps me keep the progress and setbacks in perspective and always has this upbeat attitude(which can really be annoying sometimes but is a necessary evil in that field).  For many years I was very resistant to working with a personal trainer. Even though I knew I wasn’t getting results with my own work-out efforts something about that one-on-one thing was very intimidating to me.  As a wimp, closeness is something I avoid.  I don’t want to get involved in other people’s lives and I don’t want them too deep in my life.

 

Lately after-school activities have me on a brief hiatus from working out with Josh.  I’ve realized over the last couple of months more than anything else I miss the accountability.  It’s one thing for me to say I’m going to work out then end up not doing it…it’s another thing for me to call another person and tell him I’m not coming to work out.  It’s one thing to poop out on that last push up when you’re in the privacy of your own living room…it’s a different story when someone is standing there saying “come on, give me one more.”  Having accountability to another individual puts a different spin on your efforts to accomplish your goals.

 

There are several places in the bible that talk about accountability.

 

Personal accountability:  “So we will all have to explain to God the things we have done.” (Romans 14:12)

Accountability to other Christians:  “Brothers and sisters, what if someone is caught in a sin? Then you who are guided by the Spirit should correct that person. Do it in a gentle way. But be careful. You could be tempted too. Carry each other’s heavy loads. If you do, you will give the law of Christ its full meaning.” (Galatians 6:1 – 2)

Looking out for one another:  “None of you should look out just for your own good. You should also look out for the good of others.” (Philippians 2:4)

If we all belong to the body of Christ then we belong to one another:  “The parts of the body that seem to be weaker are the ones we can’t do without. The parts that we think are less important we treat with special honor. The private parts aren’t shown. But they are treated with special care.  The parts that can be shown don’t need special care. But God has joined together all the parts of the body. And he has given more honor to the parts that didn’t have any.  In that way, the parts of the body will not take sides. All of them will take care of each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it. If one part is honored, every part shares in its joy.” (1 Corinthians 12: 22- 26)

 

A new year often brings with it new goals…personal goals and spiritual goals.  Accountability, especially to another person is a great way to help you accomplish those goals.

Can We Eat in a way that is Biblically Sound?

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Happy New Year!  It’s the most wonderful time of the year.  You know….that time when we make promises about all of the things we are going to change in our lives.  Fitness facilities love this time of year because they get an influx of new members.  The regular gym rats hate this time of year because their happy place is overrun with short timers who get in their way.  It seems that health and fitness are at the top of almost everyone’s list this time of year.

Not be left out, I thought I’d kick off the New Year with a little focus on your diet.  No, I don’t mean diet as in the food tricks you use to shed a few pounds, but diet as in what you consciously (or unconsciously) choose to put in your body.

In 2011 I did a 3 part book review of Mark Bittman’s book Cooking Solves Everything It’s a short book and an easy read.  One reviewer shared  “Bittman argues that a simple meal prepared at home is a powerful tool: It’s one small step toward improving your health and, by extension, the health of the planet. Our reliance on prepared food—in the form of snacks, soft drinks, frozen meals, and fast food—supports a system of agriculture that is playing havoc with our bodies, our economy, and the environment. How can we break the cycle? By cooking.”

Bittman’s book was actually the inspiration for my own short kindle book entitled 10 Reasons Christians Should Care About What They Eat In that book, I examine how making conscious food choices makes us better neighbors (from a local and global perspective), better stewards of the earth’s resources that God has entrusted us with, and better Christians overall.

I’ve become fascinated with this whole concept of eating in a way that is biblically sound.    By that I don’t mean trying to replicate the way they ate in the Bible.  The world is a different place and that is not realistic.  Instead we should focus on the principles that guided everyday decisions, including food choices.  In biblical times (and even as little at 150 years ago) people were much closer to the food they ate.  They grew their own crops and raised their own meat.  That is why so many parables in the Bible were about farming, that was something most people could relate to.  Jesus did a lot of his teaching around having meals with people and building relationships.  Even the apostle Paul included a discussion about eating in his efforts to encourage followers to reach out to all kinds of people. There is some power in food that goes beyond the basics of what you eat; the “how” and the “why” have some significance too.

I’ve found 4 books on Amazon that I plan on reading over the next couple of months.  I’ll write reviews for them to see if we can shed any light on this issue about the power of food and eating in a way that is biblically sound (if there is such a thing).  If you want to get a head start they are listed below.  For the record (lol), I’m not formally recommending any of these books because I haven’t actually read them.  But I have bought them and they are queued up in my Kindle to read.

 

What Would Jesus Eat?

 

What Would Jesus Eat?: The Ultimate Program for Eating Well, Feeling Great, and Living LongerThis book notes the obvious health benefits of what Jesus ate. Dr. Don Colbert reveals the sensible approach to healthy eating laid out by the ultimate role model. Readers will discover:

  • Why foods forbidden in the Old Testament are unhealthy
  • Jesus’s favorite foods, including “fast foods” and dessert
  • The health benefits of foods Jesus ate, and the health risks of foods He avoided

 

 

What the Bible Says About Healthy Living

What the Bible Says About Healthy Living: 3 Principles that Will Change Your Diet and Improve Your HealthIn a world infatuated with junk food and fad diets, why have we overlooked the simple instructions provided in the Bible that have guided people for thousands of years toward better health? You don’t have to be Jewish or a Christian to find wisdom for healthier living in this doctor’s scripturally based book on eating and feeling better, and living longer. You’ll learn the truth about grains and nuts, and the ins and outs of meat, fat and sweeteners. Discover why beverages can be the elixirs of life or death. The principles here will help anyone who is sick and tired of feeling sick and tired find energy, freedom from illness and more vibrant health.

 

 

 

God-given Foods Eating Plan

God-given Foods Eating Plan: For Lifelong Health, Optimization of Hormones, Improved Athletic PerformanceThis book studies different food groups, with a chapter devoted to each major classification of foods. First the Biblical evidence is considered, then modern-day scientific research. Foods are classified as “God-given foods” and “non-God-given foods.” A healthy eating plan is composed of a variety of God-given foods and avoids non-God-given foods.

 

The Eden Diet: You Can Eat Treats, Enjoy Your Food, and Lose Weight

Product Details

According to Rita Hancock, author of The Eden Diet, you can have your cake and eat it too, even on a reducing diet. When you eat your treat in small portions, without guilt, and in response to true, physical (not emotional) hunger, a little cake goes a long way to satisfy you. Attuning to your body’s hunger signals also helps you respond to its instinctive call for healthy food to balance out the occasional treats. Dr. Rita’s approach is based on her Ivy League training in nutrition, physiology, and obesity psychology, but is reframed in her strongly Christian convictions about how to live the way God intended—physically healthy and free of the cultural obsession with food, eating, dieting, and thinness.

 

Note:  All book descriptions were taken from the book’s entry on Amazon.com.

Contentment

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Today I did a brave and courageous thing.  I threw caution to the wind, risked my life, and helped my 9-year-old clean his room.  This quarterly event often takes 2 – 3 hours, involves at least one contractor-sized garbage bag, and generally leads to the discovery of several items long assumed to be lost forever….library books, television remotes, homework assignments, etc.

Being that it is Christmas time, I thought this would be a great time to talk with my boy about being content.  We looked at all of the STUFF he has in his room….the games, the toys, the computer, the clothes, the books….and how fortunate he is yet he continues to want more.  After all it IS Christmas and like any red-blooded American boy his Christmas was a lengthy one (it included more Lego, a Windows 8 tablet and big screen TV…dream on, kid.) We got into this discussion of  “not only do you have a lot of stuff…but you don’t use / play with most of the things in here.  How could you possibly want more?”

I’m not sure how much of my message sank in.  It’s hard not to want more when every television show, magazine, movie, video game, book, is telling you that you need XYZ to be happy.  It’s hard not to feel incomplete when your “new” video game system, ipod, cell phone, gym shoe, whatever is obsolete before the month is over.  This consumerist society we live in spends a lot of money to convince us that we need more stuff.

Paul encourages us to work on being content with what we have.  He says  “….I have learned to be content no matter what happens to me. I know what it’s like not to have what I need. I also know what it’s like to have more than I need. I have learned the secret of being content no matter what happens. I am content whether I am well fed or hungry. I am content whether I have more than enough or not enough.  I can do everything by the power of Christ. He gives me strength.”   (Philippians 4:11 – 13)

The Ultimate Christmas Gift

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A couple of Christmas’ ago, I got into the following “discussion” with my then-7-year-old son.

Me:  Christmas is not all about getting presents.

Him:  Jesus got presents

Me:  Are you Jesus?  Can you heal sick people?  Can you walk on water?

Him:  Jesus didn’t do any of those things when he was a baby and he still got presents!

Okay the kid had a point.  I was tempted to give the little smarty-pants Frankincense and Myrrh to see how much he liked the present Jesus got.  But given that I have no idea where one would purchase myrrh, we settled on a Nintendo DS for the boy.

But he was right, when the wise men found him, Jesus had done nothing at that time but been born.  No miracles (aside from the virgin birth thing), no healing, no dove from heaven accompanied by approval from God himself.  Nope, Jesus was a helpless baby, lying amongst stinky animals, just being.

So why the gifts?  Why the worshiping?  Why the adoration?  Why did the wisemen travel from so far? They came because of promise that Jesus was expected to fulfill.  They worshiped the hope that his birth brought with it.

What if this season we viewed every person we met as a baby Jesus?  A being full of hope and promise.  A person who has only scratched the surface of their potential.  What if we looked beyond the stinky, dirty circumstances that a person may be wallowing in right now and could see the bright future that they could have in Christ?  Perhaps that is the ultimate Christmas present we can share with the world.  Faith in the promise, the realization that the promise exists in everyone, and we treat everyone we meet like they can fulfill that promise.